“Only Happy When It Rains” – Garbage
(Words/music: Garbage, available on Garbage, Almo Sounds 1995)
For the record, I hate the rain. The only thing that made me happy about all of the rain in the Northeast this weekend was that it wasn’t snow. While driving home in the rain today and listening to the radio, something (I wish I remembered the song) made me think of an accusation a friend made several years ago. “You listen to sad music,” she said, and while I do like sad songs, it’s never been strictly because the lyrics are sad. I know that some people like to put on sad movies when they are sad, but I’ve never really felt that way with music. Instead, I find myself retreating into favorite albums when I’m sad. If anything, I think I gravitate toward happier music – or at least music that makes me happy. If anything, “sad songs” generally need to be that much better.
So I imagine this was a statement on the sound of the music – quieter, more somber arrangements tend to sound “sadder” than something with a lively beat. A quick survey of the songs I’ve written about (via the “random post” link in the sidebar) led to a disproportionate amount of lively, happy songs, which would tend to disprove this idea. Anyway, the combination of all of these thoughts – this random memory and a rain soaked weekend – made me think of “Only Happy When It Rains.” In the context of this discussion, this is a song that doesn’t overtly sound gloomy, save for the repeated declarations that happiness requires misery. Members of the band claimed it was a tongue-in-cheek reference to liking alternative rock, but I always thought of that as reductionist thought anyway. If anything, this is a song about finding happiness in a sound that others find gloomy or jarring. If every single person saw happiness in the same things, our world would be less interesting.
So today, my thought is that the music itself is neither happy nor sad. Instead, we fill in the emotions. These might change over time and they may not transfer from person to person, but I suppose that’s why we have so many different songs in our lives. If one doesn’t make you happy, there are plenty of others out there that will.
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