“Never Tear Us Apart” – INXS
(Words/music: Andrew Farriss and Michael Hutchence, available on Kick, Atlantic 1987)
In the United States, the night before Thanksgiving becomes a sort of impromptu reunion. I’m not really big on the forced nostalgia and awkward reminiscing, so I tend to corral my friends somewhere where we’re less likely to run into hoards of people I haven’t seen since the early part of the decade (tonight I didn’t even make it that far – I stayed in and made an Oreo cheesecake for Thanksgiving). It all comes back to the idea of reminiscing on someone else’s terms; if I had control over more of the settings – say, knowing which random people I’d run into, or at least setting a playlist – then I might be more inclined to brave the bars on a night like this.
Oddly enough, the first song that came to mind was “Never Tear Us Apart.” At first, it came to mind as the perfect song to play near the end of the night. These types of slow power ballads make for great sing-alongs, and I have vivid memories of belting out the chorus with some of my friends when the song came on. Then, the more I thought about it, it thematically captures these kind of moments where the past and present intersect. I doubt it’s what Michael Hutchence thought about when he wrote the song, but high school brings up bittersweet memories (or, more aptly, bitter and sweet memories). “Never Tear Us Apart” describes a collision of two worlds (in this case, past and present) with resolution and a slightly melancholy undertone. The way he sings the title line sounds convincing, yet the necessity for such a declaration suggests that the union will be fraying soon enough. In this case, as each year passes, the gap between the shared memories and the new lives we all live widens, and with each passing year the topics of conversation grow fewer and fewer . At least, if we all had a few drinks and sang the backing vocals to “Never Tear Us Apart, “ we could bond over this implicit recognition of a widening gap.
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